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The Paradox of Porn: Notes on Gay Male Sexual Culture (see Kirkus Review here) JUST ADDED!


Sam Shepard (see New York Times review here)

Caught in the Act: New York Actors Face to Face
(see New York Times review here), a collaboration with photographer Susan Shacter
You can read the interviews with these actors online:

Out Front: Contemporary Gay and Lesbian Plays

These anthologies include writings by me:

Male Lust: Pleasure, Power, and Transformation, edited by Kerwin Kay, Jill Nagle, and Baruch Gould, Harrington Park Press, 2000

The Best of the Best Gay Erotica, edited by Richard Labonté, Cleis Press, 2000.

The Politics of Manhood: Profeminist Men Respond to the Mythopoetic Men’s Movement (And the Mythopoetic Leaders Answer), edited by Michael Kimmel, Temple University Press, 1995.

Flashpoint: Gay Male Sexual Writing, edited by Michael Bronski, Richard Kasak Books, 1996

Lavender Culture, edited by Karla Jay and Allen Young, first published in 1978, reissued by New York University Press, 1994.

Afterwords: Real Sex from Gay Men’s Diaries, edited by Kevin Bentley, Council Oak Books, 2001

Boyfriends from Hell: True Tales of Tainted Lovers, Disastrous Dates, and Love Gone Wrong edited by Kevin Bentley, Green Candy Press, 2003.

The Queerest Art : Essays on Lesbian and Gay Theater, edited by Alisa Solomon and Framji Minwalla, New York University Press, 2002.

Sidney Lumet: Interviews (Conversations with Filmmakers Series),edited by Joanna E. Rapf, University Press of Mississippi, 2005.

The Mammoth Book of New Gay Erotica, edited by Lawrence Schimel, Carroll & Graf, 2007.

Sex by the Book, edited by Kevin Bentley, Green Candy Press, 2007

Bears: Gay Erotic Stories, edited by Richard Labonte, Cleis Press, 2008.

The American Theatre Reader: Essays and Conversations from American Theatre Magazine, TCG Books, 2009.

I Like It Like That: True Stories of Gay Male Desire, edited by Richard Labonte and Lawrence Schimel, Arsenal Pulp Press, 2009.   JUST ADDED!

After Homosexual: The Legacies of Gay Liberation, edited by Carolyn D’Cruz and Mark Pendleton, University of Western Australia Publishing, 2013.